Something Humorous, but Real
 And Something Godly & Motivating

Dear Friends,

 

Today I decided to give a more refreshing and positive message. A change from those depressing messages that reflected the worst of human behavior within a family. This message  is about 2 positive experiences I had this past Sunday.

  1. The first one comes from a conversation I had with a family friend at the Creole Family festival. A conversation that I am going to tell you about in a humorous analogy using legendary boxer Mohammed Ali's fighting style. I call it "Something Funny but real ".

  2. My second positive experience came earlier that same day from an enlightening and motivating message by Rev. Joel Olsteen. A message that perfectly fits the current drama with words for each of us. A positive experience I will tell you about as "Something Godly & Joyful"

I hope that you enjoy & appreciate both.

 

Jean-Claude Elie

SOMETHING HUMOROUS, BUT REAL
 ALI'S
ROPE-A-DOPE & ROCKMASTER'S  ROCK-A-DOPE ANALOGY

It happened this past Sunday at the Family Creole Festival in LI, thus ending my long absence from public events. The reception I received from a community aware of the drama I am dealing with, was overly  joyful and supportive.

 

 But the funny analogy came when I was chatting with a lady friend of the family delighted to see me, and who also read my report. I will refer to her as Mrs. M... At one point, she pleated to me, using my childhood nickname:
"Claudy, for your mother's sake & her memory, can't you forgive & make peace with the family?"


Sot I said: "Oh Yea! Me to make peace? Have you ever heard of Mohammed Ali's Rope-A-Dope tactic? Let me explain it to you before I can answer your question.


ALI'S ROPE-A-DOPE TACTIC
It's a tactic that calls for using more brain power than muscle in a fight. As Ali was getting older and facing younger opponents, he decided to switch to brain power. So when he got into the ring, all he did  was lean on the ropes, cover himself, tease the opponent and dope him into wasting  all his ammunitions and energy throwing wild blank shots for 14 rounds. At the same time, Ali was conserving all his energy for the finish. Then comes the 15th round, and with his opponent out of breath and out of ammunition,  "What do you think Ali did?"

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For sure Ali did not tell him "LET'S MAKE PEACE". The opponent had 14 rounds to take care of business and could not do it. SO ALI KNOCKS THE SUCKER OUT.


HOW DOES THAT RELATE TO MY ROCK-A-DOPE
First, let me set the stage for this fight I am in, and the 15th round I just entered. For that, let me jump back to Jan. 1, 2016 before I knew this fight was coming. That was 3 weeks before the sudden & unexpected demise of the marriage.

  • JAN. 1, 2016: My niece Doc Dupiton and her Renegades gang (unknown to me at the time), were at our home celebrating New year as a Family. That is the day my wife sent me her 2016 New year resolution below

    So far, So good!
     

  • 2 WEEKS LATER I go to Doc Dupiton's house to celebrate her  birthday and that of her daughter. With my nephew as DJ, I was on the mic rocking the house like the good old days. After which I prepared & sent her a souvenir video.
    So far, So good!

  • 4 DAYS AFTER THAT: With my wife in Haiti, Doc Dupiton sends me the text below relaying a message from my wife. Then I get the message on the right from my wife.

    So far, So good!

  • 3 DAYS LATER: I am on the phone with the Doc expressing my joy at my wife coming home the next day. She too is happy for me. So far, So good!

  • NEXT DAY: My wife arrives home loaded with anger as if she is possessed by some wild spirit from Haiti. Then comes the police & I am put out.. Not so Good!

  • AN SOS CALL: So I immediately sent these same family members an urgent  SOS message at midnight from a Dunkin Donuts on Hillside Ave, expecting to hear shock & dismay at what my wife did, and the family coming to my rescue.

  • ABANDONED:  But that was not to be. Not only did they ignore me, they made me enemy from that moment.

    Now, let's be clear. This  is no longer an Elie marriage issue. It's a freshly created family drama by the Claudes, scripted by my niece Dr. M. Dupiton. The two issues must not to be confused to be the same, as the Claudes keep trying to convince everyone and keep talking about my marriage.

  • PERPLEXED & MYSTIFIED So I spent the next weeks pushing for a family meeting to get to the bottom & make the peace that you are asking to make with the family. Well, THE CLAUDES BLOCKED ANY MEETING.  They will not face the tough question of
    "Why they left me in the streets that night, made me enemy & never once asked me what happened with my wife
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    Instead they kept talking about what I did for my wife to leave me, and that I should look in the mirror to see what I did, and on and on and on... Suddenly, they knew more about my marriage than me.

SO THEY SET THE STAGE FOR A 15 ROUNDS FIGHT  OVER 2 YEARS

Now not only that I did not see my wife putting me out coming, here I am in the ring for a fight that I did not see coming, and  did not train for.. But just like the marriage conspiracy was well planned by the Mad Doc, the fight after was carefully planned as their cover. Thus  explaining why they ignored my SOS call.

 

Now entering the ring, I found myself at a great disadvantage with everything heavily  weighted in their favor, with rules set by them. Mohammad Ali had it much better than me. For that let's compare the fights conditions for Ali on the left & the Rock on the right: ,

 

ALI

<= RULES=>

The Rock

 

 ALI vs 1 BOXER

1 Boxer

Opponent

7 Women

ROCK Vs 7 RENEGADES

3 Min.

ROUNDS

No Limit

Rule in
Effect

SAVED BY
The Bell

No Bell to
Save Rock

YES

REFEREE
IN RING

None - Low
Blows OK

So from the start, I was set up facing 7 devious women fighters. And worst, no referee to stop the illegal blows, bites & scratches, nor to look for hidden razor blades, knives and ice pick in the ring these women would be hiding.

 

With things not looking good, I again called for a family meeting. Again I GET DENIED. But this time I got an official written reply from the renegades syndicate. A reply I am reproducing here Word for Word. It stated:

"NO ONE WANTS TO HAVE A MEETING TO SIT AND LISTEN TO YOU TALK ABOUT CRAZY CONSPIRACY. OK!! "
(I choose keep the messenger unidentified for now)

 

So I finally admitted that this family is not interested in talking or to make peace. Therefore I am in a fight to death & I better get ready. Because while Jean Claude Elie is a peacemaker, he does not bow to anyone, or run from a fight when he is in the right. And this one is more than a fight. It is a cause. It is a fight for justice, truth family honor, and most important, my mother's legacy.

 

Again, while this fight started because of the Claudes obsession with my wife and marriage, it is not about my marriage. I also hope that Marline gets that clearly and not confuse the two as these Claudes are pushing her..

NOW COMES ROUND 1 AND THEIR ARSENAL OF DIRTY PUNCHES

  • FIRST: They opened with a barrage of lies & throwing dirty punches of fabricated slanders and insults to stain my reputation. I was picking up new labels with each round. All the sudden I was a Drug addict, Alcoholic, Crazy, Psychopath, Salopar, Squatter, Elder abuser, Free Loader, Harasser, Terror, etc. etc.

  • SECOND: Then come their heavy artillery of false police complaints, restraining orders, arrests, jail, eviction, you name it, they threw it.

SO, AT THIS POINT IN THE CONVERSATION WITH MRS. M...,  TABOU COMBO WAS BLASTING "MABOUYA". SO  I PAUSED,  DID A LITTLE MABOUYA SHAKE & BAKE. THEN ASKED MRS. M... "ARE YOU STILL WITH ME?"

SHE SAID "KEEP GOING".
 

GOOD!. SO COMES ROCKMASTER'S  ROCK-A-DOPE

Now, by the time we reached the 7th round. Their bullets were coming faster than I could duck, and from 7 directions. Now I find myself  running between criminal court, family court and eviction court. No one is talking to me except for flying bullets ringing in my ears.

 

THAT'S WHEN I SAID TO MYSELF "TIME OUT ROCK. YOU NEED A TACTIC"
That's also when Mohammed Ali came to mind. As he got older and his opponents got younger, he decided that brain power was more lethal than muscle power, and developed his Rope-A-Dope tactic. So I said to myself, against this army of 7 vicious women, I need a brain tactic like that. Thus Invented the Rock-A-Dope.

 

HERE IS HOW IT WORKS

I let them throw their dirty punches, but I don't punch back with garbage. Instead, I duck and I tease them. They get mad, throw wild punches and make mistake. With each mistake they make, they leave evidence of the conspiracy. So I take notes & collect evidence. The more I tease them, the bigger their mistakes and the more valuable the evidence they leave behind.

 

By then, I figured that all I need to do is keep ducking, teasing & doping them into making mistakes. So by the time we reach the 15th round, I will have put together all the pieces of  the conspiracy, and enter the final round with an Atomic Bomb of evidence.

 

So I said to Mrs. M... As you can see it's pretty simple but powerful brain strategy

 

NOW COMES THE 15TH ROUND

The official date of the 15th round was father's day in June 2018. As I was ready to unleash my 1st atomic bomb, I decided that I needed one more thing. I had to have a referee.

So I called on the community that knows me. So as you read this message, you are not aware that you are a silent referee. With the women knowing that the community's eyes are on them, they had to  keep the dirty tricks in check. With that I released the first  report as the first bomb. but the Mad Doc wasn't about to throw the towel

 

In shock and angry at getting hit, the Mad Doc again miscalculated and threw a kitchen sink punch with a police complaint about some crazy fear for her life. But this time a more powerful referee, the Queens District Attorney  sent the Mad Doc packing with this letter to me.

 

IN CLOSING

So I said to Mrs. M...., what I just told you is a summary of how it went. So now that I am in the 15th round, loaded with ammunitions, and getting ready to throw for the knockout punch with shocking details not yet released, YOU ARE ASKING ME TO MAKE PEACE? Did Mohammad Ali ask for peace before his final knock out punch.?

 

However there is a difference in this case. I am nice enough to reveal my plan in advance. So the Mad Doc knows that the punch is coming. She also knows some of the components  in the next atomic punch, and the damage it can do. So she has the unique opportunity to stop it by doing the right thing.

 

So Mrs. M..., if you want to see peace, talk with the other side. They have the Ball, I have the Bomb. So if they want peace, they come to me and I will tell them my demands.

 

Remember, what I said before. I pleaded for peace meetings from the start. They rejected me twice. So either they meet my demands or it's full scale ROCK-A-DOPE to the finish with no saved by the bell.

 

At which point Mrs. M... told me, I GOT YOU. YOUR FIGHT IS RIGHT & YOUR CAUSE IS RIGHT. I will think about reaching out to the other side

 

So  I close by saying "The brain is a powerful tool. You just have to use it right" Unfortunately, too many use it to bring pain and to serve the devil. Thus the reason for my marriage break up, and for the current situation. The worst part is that it's all signed by family members Dr. Marie P. Dupiton, Liliane Claude, and co-signed by others in the family.

 

At this point Tabou Combo was closing the show. We hugged and went our separate ways.

 

NOW:

One of the reasons I presented this horror story in a humorous analogy, even a joyful one, is because that morning, I had a Godly experience which convinced me that I will not allow anyone or any adversity someone created  to ruin my personal joy of life. That morning experience is the basis for this second analogy I am about to share with you, called:

A GODLY MESSAGE OF MOTIVATION

Earlier that day, and as Marline and I used to do each Sunday, I listened to a message by Rev. Joel Olsteen. A positive and motivating message that I am sharing below. Not only because it speaks to all the people involved in this drama, but because it speaks to everyone else about living a more joyful life, avoiding the garbage that negative people throw at us to disrupt our joy of living.

 

 One of the things Mr. Olsteen used to  relate the challenges to one's joyful life, is a loaded garbage truck. The type of garbage we all face regularly. The question becomes, how do we handle that moment facing someone trying to dump their garbage load on us?

 

As I relate Joel's message about the joy of life to the current drama, I have identified individual underlying messages that apply to each of the actors and victims of this drama. Which is why I insist that you listen to it as a positive person. And if you are not, you will probably get the most benefit from it.

 

 I must again repeat that this is NOT about my marriage or personal issues from  the marriage. However, one can't avoid the fact that the current situation was scripted from the marriage by people who had no business in it. People who intruded by taking advantage of my wife's vulnerability in trying to please others in search of acceptance. Interestingly, this is a subject that is well developed in Rev. Olsteen's message.

 

MY PERSONAL TAKE BEFORE YOU LISTEN

Interestingly, in chapter 2 of my report, I made reference to Dr. Dupiton's early attacks on my marriage as originating from the "Claudes Trash Factory", that  I depicted in my report by this picture with a garbage truck. So as Mr.  Olsteen started talking about the garbage truck, I said that he must be referring to the same one in this picture below.

 

So here is my take on everyone. But you will better understand my logic  after watching the video. But as you watch it, you can follow my train of thought below and see if you agree.

 

MR. OLSTEEN'S  MESSAGE RELATING TO ME.
For the 2.5 years I have faced adversities from Doc Dupiton & her Renegade gang. However, these have not  affected who I am, nor my joyful views of life. While the situation caused a slowdown in my public activities, that slowdown was  a conscious decision I made being consumed in my determination o expose the content of the garbage truck, its owners, and the damages they've done to so many.

 

It is the reason I endured the lopsided  15th round fight above for over 2 years. A fight that I am committed to win because the cause is right. A fight against those determined to spoil the joys in my life, starting with destabilizing my marriage, then getting bombarded with  slanders and lies. But l this garbage they were throwing did nor upset me as much as who was throwing it. It was coming from my own family led by sister Liliane Claude & her daughter Marie P. Dupiton. A niece I've known as Johanne, and whose diapers I changed as a baby. But today, she has developed an  overblown head, because of the 2 letters MD. she was granted. Two letters that now stand for Mad Dupiton.

 

 So, I felt great listening to the message, as I am still able to smile, laugh, write a joke, and have a good time.  In addition, I have maintained my composure by never showing anger, using insults, nor foul language in my communications. Neither have I ever spoken ill of my wife through this period. So to me, Joel Olsteen message was a  refreshing acknowledgement that I am doing the right thing.

 

JOEL'S MESSAGE AS IT RELATES TO THE  MAD DOC & HER RENEGADES

Well it is already established that the contents of the  renegades garbage truck that I started to expose in my first report,  have already ruined the joy in life for  many people. All because of Doc Dupiton's intransigence and obsession with my marriage, for which she'd d rather see everyone miserable than admit her responsibilities, and attempt to repair the damages.

 

But in scripting her destructive conspiracies, she made one huge miscalculation. She assumed that uncle Claudy would just capitulate & go away unable to stand up to some 7 devious women, as 99% of men would have. So in assuming that her uncle was just another fun guy, she never bothered to know Jean Claude the man, and having to learn the hard way. We all know what they say about Ass-uming. So that prefix, is what she made of herself.

 

All I the salvation I can hope for her in listening to Mr. Olsteen's motivating message, is the realization that she can't built her joy and happiness from the ashes of the joys she destroys, as she is now experiencing. So my wishful dream for her is that, after listening to the message, she will feel some shame, and decide to drive her garbage truck to the next landfill to have its content incinerated. But as I said, it's a wishful dream, as overcoming her chronic stubbornness and intransigence would require major divine intervention.

But as Jesse Jackson said "KEEP HOPE ALIVE".

 

JOEL'S MESSAGE & THE INDOCTRINATED FOLLOWERS OF THE RENEGADES

One  of my commitments in life is based on the 4 letter acronym DTRT (Do The Right Thing). An acronym I  unsuccessfully tried to push on the younger members of this family, and away from the wrong path of the renegades they were lured into.  Hopefully, with DTRT being an integral  part of Mr.Olsteen's message, they should realize that they only have 2 choices. Either continue to follow the garbage truck to a swampy end, or since Mr. Olsteen speaks the more powerful words of God, maybe they will convert  to DTRT.
Again, "Just keeping hope alive"

 

JOEL'S MESSAGE RELATING TO MARLINE

There is a very strong message for Marline. A message stating that joy in life does not come from others, but from within yourself. Others can be part of your joy, not create it. But they can definitively ruin your joy. In addition, sacrificing your existing joy for others expecting a higher joy in return will only lead to huge disappointment, anger and a life in denial.

 

The same goes in looking to the outside for approval and acceptance. That  will only be viewed by negative minded people like the Claudes as a weakness to take advantage of. They will then shower you with fake love to earn their trust, then lead you to the road of  self-destruction. And in my non-expert observation, I can safely say that this is her case.

 

But hopefully, reality will set in from listening to Joel's message when it comes to her relationship with the Mad Doc &  the rest of my family. A reality  that is already set in stone for the rest of us in the real world. That believing your in-laws can have your interest in mind more than your own spouse, and love you more than they love their own brother and uncle, is lunatic belief  that can only be the result of mind manipulation by self serving negative in-laws. Because it is scientifically, physically and mathematically impossible for an in-law to be thicker than blood.

 

So, I hope that she will ask herself this question. If these members of my  family loved her more than their own brother and uncle, then is there  one positive advice they ever gave her to save her  marriage?  Something I am 100% sure she cant recall, because even as blood, I never got any from them. But ironically, I can list quite a few positive advices that came from her true loving friends. Advices she chose to ignore in favor of the negative ones.

 

Having said all that, my only hope is that this message can help put her on the path for true happiness'. Because in telling me that she had a good time at a System Band party, or from a hangout with friend  is her definition of happiness, then she is in full blown denial. Because once she leaves a 4 hours party, she'll find the real world waiting for her outside.

 

JOEL OLSTEEN MESSAGE
Keeping Your Joy

So let me leave you to enjoy this motivating message about the joy of living . Listen to it wherever you are. Even if driving, put your headphones on, and you will never gain let a bad driver or traffic ruin a joyful day.

HER TRUE JOYFUL DAYS

And if she wants to remember what her true Happy Days were like and how she lost  them, all she need to do is watch this video. In fact you should all view it because if you are a friend, chances are great that you are also in it sharing the joy.


 

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